Op-ed submitted by One-eyed –
I’m not even sure where to start. But from all the comments to a recent article, it just goes to show how narrow minded and brain washed we all are.
We are all led to believe that we have to work hard, long hours to be deemed worth anything in this society. We are all led to believe that we need money and possessions.
The idea of hard work gets pumped into our brains by the generations that came before us. It’s that old school mentality of thinking.
“This is how we came up, so that’s how it’s gonna be for everyone else…”
“We had it rough….we worked our asses off to get where we are…”
As long as there are old people, things will never change.
We’ll just keep growing up to take over the family farm.
This is a society where we are known and judged by the work you either do or don’t do.
When you meet someone new, what is the first thing they ask you?
“So, what do you do for a living?”
And how you respond to this question will be how this person perceives you from here on out.
I’ve worked along side quite a few from the older generation and honestly I don’t know a darn thing about them, other than their work history. It’s all they talk about.
But not only the older generations, we also have country music, beer and truck commercials that constantly cram these ideas into our brains.
(I could spend all day showing you examples from country music lyrics. But for my own personal sanity, I’d rather not.)
You’re not ‘American’ if you don’t work hard, drive a Ford, drink Bud and go to church with your wife and children.
Wow, come to think of it, that is basically every North Iowan in a nutshell!
That’s one country song right there, folks.
And That is basically our so called American Dream.
Welcome to my nightmare.
With the millions of species on this planet, we are the only ones that NEED jobs and money to survive. And WE are the smartest?
You ever offer a job a to a bird? (Yeah, sounds crazy.) But he will tell you to “Get Bent!” every time. (In a different language of course.) Tell him you’ll give him free food and a place to stay. Guess what? He already has all that.
Every species besides us has that! They all live off the land for FREE. They eat for free. They build there own houses (nests) for free. They are all free, come as they go, do as they want, whenever, wherever, whatever…
But Us. For some reason we all got the idea that we need these jobs and this money in order to survive. Who’s the smartest now?
I for one hate having a job. Not that I’m lazy or oppose labor and exercise. I don’t mind helping friends and family with projects or even with my own house which is a ‘fixer upper’. I spent a good part of the week re-roofing my shed and even though it was hard work and hot outside, I enjoyed it. I did it on my time, woke up when I felt like it, took a break when I needed it. Got the job done without any of the pressures of actually being at work.
There was no buzzer telling me what time to start and what time to take a leak.
I can keep plenty busy with my own projects at home and if I do feel like I need to burn some extra calories, I can jump on my bicycle. I don’t need a structured forty hour work week to make me feel ‘worth a lick.’ Nor do I need a boss breathing down my neck all day to keep me motivated.
You can work your ass off for him one day…real back breaking work, and wake up tired and sore the next morning, but guess what? You still have to show up on time again sore or not. The body doesn’t heal on schedule.
Ever accidentally sleep in for like an extra hour? You felt great, didn’t you? …til you got to work and caught shit from your boss.
Sometimes you need more than 16 hours between shifts. Especially when we all know you don’t get that whole time for rest. There’s always more work waiting for you at home.
Our typical 8 hours can easily stretch into 12 if you consider what all you actually do to prepare for your job as well. Take into account the drive to work, that can add an hour to your day. Plus you gotta stop to put more fuel into your car. Pack a lunch? Gotta stop and get bread. Wash up some more work clothes. Take a shower to clean off the sweat of the day. Oh but don’t forget you got to mow the lawn too.
Usually by the time I’m done preparing for the next day of work, I hardly have enough time to grab some dinner then flop into bed and hope that I sleep well. You shut your eyes for what seems like five minutes and then all of a sudden your alarm is blaring.
Time to Wake Up!
working hard to get what you want is the way it should be. unfortunately for our country, it is becoming less and less feasible to live comfortably simply by working hard and being self-motivated…
Now then.
“The idea of hard work gets pumped into our brains by the generations that came before us. It’s that old school mentality of thinking.”
Yes, generations that built this country. Example, Aunt Julia did not get that beautiful farm in SE Ohio by wishing on a star. Those plants, trees, and bushes did not appear out of thin air. Yet when they came to the U.S. their parents had nothing. And that coal mine her husband worked at, did not produce coal unless someone, or in that case, a large group of someones went into the ground and brought it up to be sold.
In return for their labour, they saved enough to purchase the land. On it, they built a house, a barn, and a pole shed. She put in the trees, plants, and bushes on money she saved from selling corn, chickens, and later, apples.
As I grew up in the big city, I learned from my uncles what the reward was for your labour. In school, I read Abe Lincoln’s feelings about the fruits of one’s labour. “..Still, in the right to put into his mouth the bread that his own hands have earned, he is the equal of every other man, white or black.” – 1858
Later in life, I realized that man had a right to have and hold property, guaranteed by our Constitution. Something so many other nations do not allow, or if they do, corruption takes it away as candy from a baby.
They are not words on paper. No, they are backed up by experiences through our history. The constant stories about people, who started with nothing, maybe immigrants, invented, made things, bargained things, and created wealth. The man who died in his 90’s after establishing and running a newsstand in Peoria, lived life, and was happy with his small bounty.
A man who opened up a machine shop in his barn in the Blue Ridge of Virgina, almost went broke in the Panic of 1837, moved to Chicago to perfect a harvester. He died worth $11 million in 1883.
A teen growing up in South Central New York, had to take over his fathers modest mercantile business at age 15 when his father passed. He enrolled in the militia, and later became involved with local politics. Later, he became a man of many firsts. The first Mayor of Chicago, built the first railroad of Chicago. Was the first president in the newly formed Pacific Railroad (Union Pacific). All from being a frontier grocer’s son.
Those are a few historic examples. It is not who we are, it is how we apply ourselves. It is not about being in Forbes 500, it is about being comfortable with what and who you are. Even if it means a bungalow instead of a mansion, or a Chevy instead of a Mercedes. How we get there is as important as where we are going.
When one looked at the faces of immigrants working in the meat packing plants back in the 20’s and 30’s, you would have never known how they got to own homes in big beautiful suburbs. And it was a very long way from the squalor they lived in when they first arrived here.
Well, it had to be something. How did they get there? Yep, good old fashioned hard work, and a belief that they could get ahead. Without that dream, it might not have happened.
“We are all led to believe that we have to work hard, long hours to be deemed worth anything in this society.”
Your self-worth is all that really matters. All society asks is that you follow the rules as set forth.
“You’re not ‘American’ if you don’t work hard, drive a Ford, drink Bud and go to church with your wife and children.
Wow, come to think of it, that is basically every North Iowan in a nutshell!”
I must not be American since excepting one, none of the above list applies to me. Heck, I don’t even listen to Country Music.
History teaches us that high taxes, entitlements, and welfare kills ambition.
Work is as natural as play!
Having a healthy attitude, and if you educate and prepare yourself for the kind of work that makes you happy, you will find tranquility.
Well, if no one worked, I would have died of pneumonia at age 5 because there would have been no hospitals with doctors, nurses, or anyone producing penicillin in a manufacturing plant. Most of the people alive would be dead from one thing or another just from a lack of medical care. We’d be living in hand-hewn log homes we’d have to build ourselves. Life would be very hard and very short. People would starve to death this winter for lack of food. Sounds like fun, huh.
I hate to go to work myself at times. But as an adult, it’s a your responsibility to take care of yourself. For those whom go to work and pay taxes, we do it for different reasons. I look forward to my retirement someday, in a different state, with better weather. Until then, I will continue to work, save my money, take a vacation or two, enjoy my friends and family, and enjoy life to the best of my ability. For those people whom don’t want to work, well that is fine. Just don’t take advantage of the system that the taxpayers are paying for. Laziness is no excuse. If you are disabled or suffer from mental illness, then you have a reason not to work. But don’t prosecute those who want to work and enjoy their life. It’s nice to have a little bit of money in your pocket at times.
This article does raise some issues that I too have have thought about.Most of the problems in our little corner of the universe stem from people not being challenged to discover and take advantage of skills they possess.Working for 10 years at a manufacturing facility(hint;they moved to the murder capitol of the world)I observed that most conversations revolved around how much somebody got drunk over the weekend and how much they were planning to get drunk after payday.At no time did people talk about what they were going to do with their futures, so mediocrity rules the day.For some reason we have been duped into the template of getting out of school,working 40-50 years and retiring when we are physically breaking down. After 1 or 2 years of bothering our spouses or family we enter into an “assisted living” farm and then onto the nursing home where you are allowed to die when all the money in your retirement fund runs out.Imagine if high schools also taught students the value of saving money and investing in themselves.Then imagine generations of people that had the ability of retiring by the age of 40 if they so desired.I’m sure corporations and governments would have to adapt to a society that has the ability to think for themselves. There is nothing wrong with hard work as long as it is applied to whatever a person is passionate about.
I like all this!
I must say that hard work is not appreciated much in this town. But, rather taken advantage of. I have worked for the same local business since 1999 & a new hire makes a quarter less than me. I have excellent attendance & have done everything asked of me & then some. Is that appreciation, does that get my bills paid according to how hard I work? Nope. Takes all the motivation out of hard work, so I’ll just milk the clock from now on, do enough so I don’t get fired, but not over achieve like I have been for the last how many damn years.
Are you me?
The Bible tells us to work and not be slothful. Many of us jokingly wish we would inherit some large sum of money so that we no longer have to work. We dream of a life of leisure and not having to daily go to the office, fight the traffic, deal with work-related problems, or cook dinner after returning late. But the Bible tells us differently about work. It tells us that we are all meant to work while we are able. You’ll discover that work actually gives you a higher quality of life even if it wears you out. Let’s look at the topic of work in the Bible.
The Bible tells us that work was God’s plan from the very beginning. Genesis 2:15 (NIV) tells us that even before sin entered into the world, God put Adam and Eve in the garden to look after it. After Adam and Eve sinned and were driven out of the Garden of Eden, they were still told that they would work but it would be much harder work. Genesis 3:17-19 (NIV) gives a somewhat unattractive picture of work after God’s curse on mankind because weeds were introduced into the picture. Weeds make a person’s work much harder.
The Apostle Paul was a strong believer in the work ethic. In fact, Paul was a New Testament evangelist and church planter but he still maintained his secular profession as a tentmaker. In 2 Thessalonians 3:7-10 (NIV), Paul explains to the church how he did not want to burden them with the extra expense of his visits so he worked. He petitioned to the church to follow his example of avoiding idleness and told the church in Thessalonica that if anyone does not work, the same should not eat.
The Bible presents the ant as a model for wisdom. A person who is hard-working is considered wise like the ant in the Bible. The passage in Proverbs 6:6-11 (NIV) describes the ant and how each day it gathers what it needs for sustenance with no one to tell it what to do. The passage ends with a warning of how slothfulness leads to poverty.
The Bible describes how the slothful person will do nothing to prevent poverty. In the Book of Proverbs, the slothful person is described as one who likes sleep. In Proverbs 6:9-11 (NIV), the slothful person likes to sleep just a little longer unawares of a robber who is quietly taking away everything he has. This description is analogous to those who might sleep or do other lazy activities in the midst of their troubles. For example, a person might lose his or her job and spend the time after the job loss sleeping until noon instead of looking for work. This same person never finds a job and financial troubles accumulate.
Work with perseverance prevents much more than poverty. For instance, it prevents waste or the wasting of opportunities (this is especially important in economically hard times). In Proverbs 12:27 (NIV), we are told of the person who will not work to clean what he hunted for the day and it just goes to waste. Imagine working to achieve some goal yet not fully enjoying its fruits because you won’t do the final steps. It’s like going to 3 and one-half years of college and dropping out in the very last semester. Of course there are valid reasons students have to drop out of college but this is the person who never returns to finish what he or she started. All the work up to that point goes to waste.
from getchristiananswers.com
The bible tells us lots of things. Too bad it was written by men.
Nah, No man could present something so wise as the Bible.
The first thing I learned in my 2nd year religion class at Luther was to forget all the stuff we had been taught in Sunday School. What a relief that was. We were able to analyze the bible as a history book with archaeology to back up facts instead of blind acceptance. It’s too bad lay people can’t accept that.
There’s a lot of stuff I like in the bible. It’s been a while since I’ve done any reading in it and may have to open it up again sometime soon.
But at the same time there is a lot of ‘hard to swallow’ type of stuff that just leaves me wondering who the heck are they trying to fool…
Still there’s plenty of good ideas and little bits and pieces to live by that I do enjoy.
This piece has more holes in it than Sonny Corliogne.
This is just the type of attitude I can not stand about our world. The people who have the mentality their owed something for nothing. In recent articles I’ve been described as an old man when in reality I am very young and was raised on hard work and nothing is yours unless you work for it. If you want the luxuries in life whatever they may be for you; your going to have to work to get them.
Who the hell needs to work anymore when the government gives welfare maggots everything to survive? Free housing, food stamps, free healthcare, free prescription shoes phones, etc… the list is endless. Why the hell work?
I choose to work because it is the RIGHT thing to do and besides…. who else is going to cover all those WELFARE PROGRAMS ? China… I think not 🙁
I agree with what you say, But I don’t accept the fact that God put us on this planet to spend our entire lives working at some 9-5 job.
Its the fact that we have no choice! We HAVE to hold down a job and earn money to be able to live on this planet that we were brought to.
What ever happend to living off the land? Trading work?
I’ll build your house and you give me medical supplies…
I know things are way more complicated now, especially with technology and medical breakthroughs.
But I feel that we are losing more and more of our personal freedom to Jobs.
I was surprised to read this as well. Perhaps my writings didn’t occur in vain here after all? I know many people feel the way I do about things, and it takes just a little nudging to bring it out. For that I’m going to pat myself on the back and declare “Mission Accomplished”.
As far as his article itself? Exactly. That question about what I do for a living has to sit up there as the top annoying questions of all time. Automatically they are looking for qualifiers or disqualifiers so they can fit you in to this economic game they’ve constructed. They are squirming so bad to judge you…to place you…they NEED it so bad to fit into their post WW2 mentality. What do you think my revolution is all about? Come on over One-Eyed when you get tired of the insults on NIT. You can submit articles to me as well. http://www.iowarevolution.com
Thought you were leaving?
I have left. But when a protoge’ writes something apropos, I find it compelling to chime in. As far as common street crime stories, and submitting articles…I’m done. Never again, unless I get paid for it. Besides…I’m still working out the kinks on my own website. It’s tedious work.
“Peter L
July 14, 2012 at 11:39 pm
“I’m done. I’ll never submit an article and I’ll never comment on a story. I’m merely responding when people comment on Whiner’s Den, and my article I wrote The Serf.”
Such integrity and conviction! I can’t wait to see what is left when you give up on your new website!
Very good discription of life as we know it. I can relate to some, if not all of it. But, you forgot to mention where you get your money to do some of the things that you dislike doing. Yes, I learned while growing up that I had to work for things that I wanted/needed to exist. I don’t know if a person could exist for very long if they didn’t work and had no money. Sure, there is always the soup kitchen, dumpsters, welfare, slum lords etc, but how long could you stand to do that, is that really living. What if nobody worked, would there be soup kitchens, dumpsters, welfare, slum lords to help us. I was in Iraq in 03-04, just outside Baghdad was a very large dump. Everytime we would go by that dump, I would see people scrounging through the trash, and for what. Sorry, but I really don’t want to live that way. So, even though I’m kind of like you and don’t want to work, I have to so me and my family can exist.
WOW- a page from Peter L.’s book. Just like him you want something for nothing. Even birds have to work for their food or they will starve. As far as being free, they must be eternally on watch or they get killed. Something just like people. I hope people with attitudes like you come back as a worm, then you will see what freedom is.
From reading this rant: The author is not thankful for anything. He is bitter, selfish, and was spoiled growing up.
He don’t want to work, enjoy our culture, relax at the end of the and enjoy the cards he has been dealt.
Well bub, here is life’s reality.
None of us get out of here alive. YOU make it what it is!
Unless you do some changing, you are going to leave a horrible memory behind when your numbers up.
Sorry, Peter L.
You are probably correct on everything you have said here. I am bitter, sort of selfish -maybe. And I suppose I was spoiled growing up. My parents did work hard and long hours to give me a good childhood.
Many baseball games were missed by a father working late. He is a very hard worker. And he is away from home ALOT chasing after that money. I appreciate his hard work. But at the same time here he is, spending his life working hard. Bad knees and all.
But all that hard work for his family just so I can grow up and repeat the cycle?
I’ve been working full time since I was 14 years old. (yeah, I know there’s laws against that.) But if I wanted stuff, I had to earn my own money. I wanted a car and gas to put in it. I wanted to go to college and its just been one thing after another since.
Now here I am, with two jobs (Surprise!) a car (paid off), and a house (I bought it, another surprise?)
Now here I am chasing that buck just to say I lived another day.
I’m thankful for my parents raising me well. But everything else, I thank myself, it was my own hard work. Bad knees and all…
Every species besides us has that! They all live off the land for FREE. They eat for free. They build there own houses (nests) for free. They are all free, come as they go, do as they want, whenever, wherever, whatever…
Good concept but, you forgot about the cat. The cat’s job is to eat the bird.
Thats a great point! I wish I would have thought of that…